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How AI Can Help Build Better Relationships: Planner-led, AI Augmented

Emily Koochel November 18, 2025

Heart of Advice Blog AI Augmented Work

In a previous article, we explored how AI can support automation to handle repetitive, time-consuming, mostly back-office tasks. That discussion focused on efficiency and AI’s ability to give us back time.

Now, we will explore AI as augmentation. The difference is critical: automation is about efficiency (time), while augmentation is about intelligence (productivity and effectiveness). One saves time; the other expands your impact.

The fact is, with the right implementation, AI can make you more insightful, more present, and more human – not by replacing you, but by enhancing your strengths in every client interaction. This is about collaboration, not delegation.

Reimagine AI as a Relationship Partner

In addition to extending efficiency, the most effective use of AI today is human-led and AI-augmented, where the planner remains at the center of the relationship, guiding the conversation, but with AI helping shape deeper insights, faster workflows, and more responsive service.

When used this way, AI becomes less like a robot assistant and more like a strategy co-pilot—always on, always learning, and always ready to extend your reach. AI helps you show up as a better you for your clients—not by speaking for you, but by equipping you with better timing, smarter data, and more meaningful conversations.

At the strategic level, here’s how AI can augment your work and increase your human connections:

  • Surface the right information at the right time: AI can analyze client communication history, meeting notes, and financial data to flag patterns or trigger talking points you might otherwise miss.
  • Personalize with precision:  Generative AI tools can help draft customized messages, annual review agendas, or scenario analyses that reflect your client’s unique circumstances.
  • Uncover hidden insights: Some AI models can detect emotional sentiment in emails or meeting transcripts, helping you understand what your client isn’t saying out loud.

This isn’t about turning planning into a software experience. It’s about extending your capacity to be thoughtful, relevant, and proactive. It’s about being a better human because you have backup.

Human-AI Collaboration: Augmented by AI, Directed by Humans

Identify tasks best performed collaboratively—where AI handles repetitive and analytical aspects, and humans bring creativity, judgment, and relationship-building to the forefront. This hybrid approach allows financial planners to focus on what matters most: providing personalized guidance.

Tasks Well-suited to Human-AI Collaboration

Risk Profiling and Behavioral Assessments

  • Advanced technology can collect and analyze behavioral input, helping identify risk tolerance and biases using psychological and economic patterns.
  • Financial planners then interpret AI-generated insights, discussing the implications with clients and co-creating strategies tailored to their emotional, financial, and relational contexts.

Client Engagement and Experience

  • AI-driven tools can enhance engagement by automating routine tasks like reminders, notifications, or access to interactive client portals.
  • Advisors complement this by providing a relational touch, offering empathy, guidance, and in-depth discussions during critical decision-making moments.

Goal Prioritization

  • Technology can analyze financial trends, trade-offs, and projections to help prioritize different goals.
  • Advisors utilize this output as guidance, balancing trends with the client’s unique life goals and discussing priorities in a personalized, human-centric manner.

Planning Analysis

  • AI can flag potential planning strategies, identify gaps in estate plans, and generate tax optimization suggestions based on financial data.
  • Advisors collaborate with CPAs, attorneys, and the client to execute nuanced strategies, ensuring compliance and alignment with the client’s overall financial vision.

Client Segmentation and Service Model Personalization

  • AI algorithms can categorize clients based on financial behavior, value segmentation, or life stage, while suggesting tailored communication plans (type, content, frequency).
  • Advisors decide how best to act on those insights, ensuring strategies are customized to strengthen client relationships and align with their preferences.

Client Trust Is About Confidence in You

When clients see their planner confidently using AI as a partner, they are sure to be curious. Don’t avoid talking about it. Trust grows when they see your trust in the technology and understand why. That sends a clear message: technology is here to serve them, not the other way around the other way around. Trust grows when:

  • Planners explain how AI is used to improve accuracy and save time
  • Planners can explain how AI decisions are made
  • Clients see that technology is a tool, not the decision-maker
  • Planners remain the ones interpreting, adapting, and applying insights to their unique goals

Be Knowledgeable About AI to Build Trust

When explaining how AI works in financial planning, the goal is to make it clear, relatable, and non-technical—so clients feel informed rather than overwhelmed. Here’s a framework you can use in conversation or presentations:

1. Start with the Role, Not the Tech

Think of AI as a tireless research assistant. It can process thousands of historical data points and economic indicators in seconds, so we can focus on making the best decisions for you.

This positions AI as a supporting actor rather than the decision-maker.

2. Use an Analogy They Already Trust

It’s a bit like a GPS for your finances. You tell it your destination—your goals—and it continuously monitors the road ahead, suggesting adjustments if traffic, weather, or roadblocks appear.

This makes AI’s role dynamic and proactive, without implying it replaces human judgment.

3. Explain the Inputs and Process in Simple Steps

“The inputs are facts including market data, economic reports, historical performance, risk models, and your personal goals.

Be sure to tell them about the inputs.

AI scans for patterns and scenarios, comparing them to what has happened before and what’s happening now.”

Explain in simple terms how AI processes the data.

Recommendations, risk alerts, and insights—these are always reviewed by me before they reach you.”

Tell them what the outputs are while emphasizing your oversight.

4. Reassure About Human Oversight

AI is here to highlight possibilities and risks faster than a human could on their own—but I decide what’s relevant, and then together we decide what action to take.

This tells the client exactly what AI is doing, while noting it provides speed and intelligence, but you, the planner, have oversight and make the decisions.

Always Match the Tool to the Task

There’s no single rule for when or how to augment your work with AI—because the most effective setup depends on the task and the people involved. It is key to avoid seeing AI as the tool for every task. Instead, ask yourself: Is this task best suited for humans, AI, or a human-AI partnership? Studies show that in some cases, AI outperforms humans working alone. In others, people sometimes outperform AI.2 And sometimes, a human–AI collaboration works best.

The key variable in all of this is context. Because it’s not about finding the best AI setup—it’s about finding the right one for the job. Flexibility, not uniformity, drives value in AI adoption.

Learn what financial professionals are saying about the future of AI in financial planning in our eBook, AI in Financial Advice: What’s Next? Trends and Guidance for Forward-thinking Planners.

1 When combinations of humans and AI are useful: A systematic review and meta-analysis, Michelle Vaccaro, Abdullah Almaatouq, Thomas Malone, Nature of Human Behavior, 2024

2 When humans and AI work best together — and when each is better alone, MIT Management Sloan School, 2025

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About the Author

Dr. Emily Koochel is an experienced financial professional, academic, and researcher. She currently serves as a leader for eMoney Advisor’s Financial Education and Wellness initiatives in her role as Manager of Financial Wellness. Dr. Koochel’s PhD in Applied Family Science and Master’s in Financial Planning provide a multidisciplinary lens to inform her work where she focuses on understanding the effect of financial behaviors and financial decision making on personal and financial wellness. She serves as a subject matter expert in the field, reviewing and authoring peer-reviewed journal articles, book chapters, and contributing to public scholarship. Most notably, she served as a co-author for the CFP Board’s book – The Psychology of Financial Planning - and was awarded 2020 Outstanding Research Journal Article of the Year by the Association for Financial Counseling and Planning Education. She holds the Certified Financial Therapist – I designation and is an Accredited Financial Counselor and Behavioral Financial Advisor.

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