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The Role Client History Plays in Creating Strong Financial Planning Relationships

Dr. Preston Cherry November 30, 2021

Financial Planner Having an Earnest Conversation with Client

Growing up, everyone in my family changed their own motor oil. We’d purchase Quaker State—my dad’s preferred brand—and a few filters. For around $40, we’d have enough to maintain both of our cars twice over.

When I was old enough to have my own car, I drove past an advertisement for motor oil that read “Pennzoil: $20.” Hoping to snag a potential deal, I stopped in the store and asked the clerk what I’d get for $20.

They weren’t sure what I was asking. After some back-and-forth, they finally explained that the $20 included six quarts of oil and that someone would change the oil for me.

I was shocked. I’d been changing my own oil since I was 10 years old. Doing it any other way wasn’t even a question for us. It’s just what our family did.

But in that moment, I wasn’t just exposed to something new—I experienced a shift in financial values. Technically, I was paying more to have my car serviced, but in my mind, I wasn’t just paying for the oil—I was also paying for my time. In fact, I never planned on changing my own oil again.

Whether we realize it or not, all of us follow financial scripts that we learn during our upbringing and throughout our lives. These scripts influence our financial behaviors, outlooks, and attitudes toward money. New experiences and ideas can change these scripts, so anyone seeking to influence or engage with their financial scripts needs to first understand them.

For financial planners, unlocking your client’s scripts and understanding how they advance—and impede—their greater financial wellness is essential for creating a genuinely valuable relationship.

Why Is Understanding Your Client’s Background Important?

Deepening Relationships and Creating Value

Truly holistic financial planning is led by your client’s financial psychology. Financial psychology is our set of beliefs about money that influence our financial spending and behaviors.1

Aligning the financial plan with the broad tapestry of factors that influence the client’s financial psychology—including life aspirations, as well as behavior and emotion management—is key for forging deeper, more fruitful planning relationships.

Deepening this relationship is beneficial for everyone. For clients, it helps them look beyond the facts and figures. It refocuses them on how the financial plan has a tangible impact on their lives and can help them manage their financial behaviors and emotions and, ultimately, meet their goals. For financial planners, a deeper relationship leads directly to more impactful plans and successful planning engagements.

By taking the time to understand the client’s financial history and psychology, the planner highlights their true value and expertise beyond simply managing the mechanics of money.

See Your Client’s Evolution in Action

Our attitudes about money are always shifting depending on our stage in life, our experiences, and the people we interact with.

Our attitudes about money are constantly influenced by our family unit—whether they live in the same household or not. For example, the next time I saw my dad changing his own oil, I let him know that I’d started getting my vehicle serviced instead of doing it myself.

He was initially shocked that I’d deviated from the family script, but when I explained my reasoning, he had a change of heart. He said, “You know what? That makes sense.” From that day on, he stopped changing his own oil.

Having a deeper understanding of your client’s experiences and keeping your finger on the pulse of their evolving attitudes can help you create that deeper relationship and, ultimately, provide more actionable financial advice.

Techniques for Uncovering Your Client’s Financial Background

Don’t expect to uncover your client’s background organically. Getting to know your client’s financial psychology must be approached with intention. While there are many methods for doing this, here are a few techniques you can incorporate into your planning process.

Conduct Motivational Interviewing

Motivational interviewing is an interviewing method that intends to undercover a person’s intrinsic motivation to change.2

Though the technique was originally pioneered by counselors and psychologists, it has extensive applications in the financial advice industry.2 Financial planners can use motivational interviewing to understand how much work the client has done to unpack their current relationship with money.

If clients haven’t taken the time to audit their financial feelings and experiences, then motivational interviewing can help inspire that engagement. It also helps planners build a rapport and provide neutral but helpful advice to clients who may have obstacles standing between themselves and their goals.

Engage in Story Exchanges

Engaging in story exchanges—in other words, telling your client a personal story of your own—can kick off deeper conversations about financial history while building trust. If you’re having difficulty getting your client to discuss their experiences, open the conversation with your own related story.

While it’s important to ask open-ended questions and give your clients room to tell their stories, sometimes telling your own financial story can make your client feel more comfortable—like they’re engaging in a conversation with a trusted friend.

Leverage Positive Psychology Principles

Positive psychology is a sub-field of psychology that helps people lead fulfilling lives, further develop their strengths, and enhance positive life experiences.3

Financial planners can leverage positive psychology principles to focus not just on meeting the client’s financial needs, but also on reaching a state of self-actualization when it comes to their financial life.

In pursuit of this goal, you need to address the financial scripts that inform the psychological and behavioral elements your client needs to live their happiest, most fulfilled life. 

What Financial Scripts Do You Follow?

The best way to truly excel at uncovering your client’s background and understanding the impact that exploring financial psychology has on the financial planning process is by doing your own internal work.

Audit your own financial background and consider how it has influenced your financial psychology. This can help you have more open conversations with clients and give you insight into the transformational journey most of your clients will be on.

Once you do the work yourself, you’ll see how an understanding of financial scripts will positively impact your clients’ plans and well-being.

Sources:

1. “Financial Psychology and Behavioral Finance.” Creighton University, 2021. https://gradschool.creighton.edu/programs/graduate-certificates/business/financial-psychology-behavioral-finance.

2. Grubman, James, Kathleen Bollerud, and Cheryl R. Holland. “Motivating and Helping the Overspending Client: A Stages-of-Change Model.” Financial Planning Association, 2011. March 1. https://www.financialplanningassociation.org/article/journal/MAR11-motivating-and-helping-overspending-client-stages.

3. “Our Mission.” University of Pennsylvania Positive Psychology Center, 2021. https://ppc.sas.upenn.edu/our-mission.

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About the Author

Dr. Cherry is the Founder & President of Concurrent Financial Planning, LLC, a comprehensive financial planning firm that helps households and business owners achieve Life Money Balance™. Dr. Cherry serves as Assistant Professor of Finance and Head of the Personal Financial Planning Program at the University of Wisconsin – Green Bay. His research surrounds personality traits and financial uncertainty risks. Over 14 years, he has served in lead financial planning roles and RIA co-investment manager of $120M in firm assets. Dr. Cherry has also served in institutional retirement sales, as a mutual fund wholesaler, and serves as a financial advisor coach for Carson Group Coaching. His degrees include an MS and Ph.D. in Personal Financial Planning from Texas Tech University, B.B.A. in Finance from Prairie View A & M University and serves as President-Elect for the Financial Therapy Association, serves on the CFP Board Education Council, and the Boards of the Association of African American Advisors Foundation, and the Green Bay Economic Development Board for the Green Bay Chamber of Commerce. Dr. Cherry also serves on the Partners Committee for the Wisconsin Chapter of Financial Planning Association.

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