Rebuilding Client Trust: 5 Steps Every Financial Planner Should Know
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Insights and best practices for successful financial planning engagement
• Valerie Rivera • July 8, 2025
The wealth management industry faces several opportunities and challenges in the years to come with rising customer expectations, evolving technologies, and competitive dynamics continually reshaping the financial planning landscape.1
In addition, greater levels of automation will continue to lower costs and barriers for young people and mass-affluent households to access financial advice, likely sending more people in search of financial advice.2
In a world filled with more options for financial advice, one truth is becoming crystal clear: clients don’t just stay with a financial professional just because of expertise—they stay because of how their financial planners make them feel.
These data points suggest that in the future, the greatest differentiator may not be knowledge or even expertise—it may be the ability to make human connections, also known as the luxury of being truly seen and heard.
That’s why forward-thinking financial planners are shifting their focus from crunching numbers to fortifying the client experience. And in doing so, they’re potentially creating client loyalty so powerful that it transforms into effortless word-of-mouth marketing.
To create better client experiences, some financial planners are trying to recreate and scale some of the high-touch experiences financial planners already offer high-net-worth (HNWI) individuals.
Financial planners aiming to uplevel client experiences will want to view their service not just as the delivery of advice, but as the creation of memorable, personalized touchpoints that build trust over time. However, before deciding on what activities to include in an elevated experience, it’s best to assess your overall ability to provide a consistent approach by:
When you are confident that you can maintain a consistently higher level of service for a client, begin a list of potential ways of doing so.
Start with small but impactful actions that help to show the client you see them as people and not just clients. There are relatively easy ways of being impactful when looking to add a white glove touch to almost any client experience:
Many financial professionals already do some of these activities and would consider them “table stakes” when working with clients. However, if you’re looking to uplevel the client experience and aren’t paying attention to these basic activities, that’s where you should first focus.
At its core, high-touch service is about making clients feel known, valued, and supported. You want every client to feel like a VIP, but you may not have the bandwidth to treat everyone like a private wealth client. The solution isn’t more effort—it’s better structure.
The first step is to define the emotional outcome you want clients to feel, such as being seen, supported, and understood. Then, reverse-engineer your service model to deliver those feelings at scale. Clients want to know you remember what matters to them—not just their money, but their lives.
To make this happen across your entire client base, not just your top-tier clients. You may need to redesign some of your services with those emotional goals in mind. This means looking at the experience from the client’s perspective and then structuring your practice to deliver that feeling consistently, even as you grow.
Here are three practical ways to borrow high-touch activities from high-net-worth clients for your entire client base:
1. Offer different levels of service based on each client’s needs
Not every client needs the same amount of attention. Some have more complex situations and want regular check-ins. Others just want a yearly review. Clients don’t need to know what tier they fit best in, but they will notice that instead of trying to treat everyone the same, your service approach fits their lifestyle best.
For example:
The key to making a tiered approach effective is knowing what your clients want and matching your offering to their desired outcome. This helps you focus your time where it’s needed most—while still giving everyone a great experience.
2. Automate communication, but make it feel personal
Clients appreciate a thoughtful message, even if it’s sent automatically. However, ensure the tools used to send these messages are personalized. Send messages at key moments:
The key is making these messages feel personal. For example, start a message with a personal note, such as: “Hi Sandra, I was thinking of you today because of our recent conversation about your daughter starting college…”
3. Use a Client Relationship Management (CRM) system or dedicated client portal to remember important details
A CRM tool or secure client portal helps you keep track of conversations, life updates, preferences, and key dates. Instead of trying to remember every client’s story or relying on your notes, a portal lets you store and search for everything—so when you talk to someone again, you can quickly recall what matters to them.
For example, keep reminders for each client such as:
Remembering life events or even simple preferences can make clients feel truly seen and cared for—and not like they’re just another file in a drawer.
By providing a service calendar you can significantly elevate the client experience by bringing transparency, proactivity, and personalization into the advisor-client relationship. Service calendars that are designed with a client’s preferences in mind do more than track dates, they help clients feel confident in your work by:
You don’t need a seven-figure marketing budget to deliver five-star service. After assessing your ability to provide premium level service, and starting with small, thoughtful touches, look to bolster other areas of the client experience. Here’s how you can start:
Start with a “Wow” Moment
The first 90 days after signing a client are crucial. Create a welcome package that sets the tone with:
Tip: Setting the tone that they made the right choice reinforces their decision. Try doing this for every client.
Annual Rediscovery Meetings
Instead of focusing purely on portfolio performance, schedule an annual meeting dedicated to reviewing life goals. Get to know them all over again—almost like a rediscovery meeting:
Tip: A planned “rediscovery” shifts conversations from numbers to meaning — and builds incredible loyalty.
Exclusive Client-only Events
Consider hosting client-only events such as:
Tip: It’s not just about the information — it’s about the sense of belonging to something special and feeling as though one has access to a variety of expertise.
Proactive Planning Updates
Never wait for clients to ask for updates. Send proactive emails, leading with your thoughts, such as:
Tip: Put everything in your calendar: anticipating needs shows that you are actively thinking about them, and not just reacting.
Post-meeting Summaries with Personal Notes
After every major meeting, send a recap — but also add a personal note that acknowledges something unrelated to finances:
Tip: This shows you’re paying attention to their real life, not just their net worth.
A superior experience not only sets professionals apart from competitors but fosters lasting relationships, boosting retention and referrals. In a rapidly evolving industry, client-centric, premium experience strategies have become the key to success. Ultimately, these make clients feel valued, not processed.
While adding elements of high-touch experiences to your client experience, be careful not to cross certain lines:
Financial planning is evolving; it’s no longer enough to be technically competent. More clients will continue to seek emotional competence—someone who understands the full tapestry of their lives and shows up not just as an expert but as a trusted companion.
By creating a higher-level client experience, you transform your service into something more than just financial advice.
In a world where connection matters as much as competence, delivering an elevated client experience sets you apart. As many financial planners have already found, improving the client experience isn’t just good for business—it’s the foundation for long-term, meaningful relationships.
To learn more about mastering the client experience, check out our 5 Aspects of an Exceptional Client Experience blog post.
1 On the cusp of change: North American wealth management in 2030, McKinsey & Company, Pooneh Baghai, Alex D’Amico, Renee de la Roche-Zhu, Onur Erzan, Vlad Golyk, and Jill Zucker, July 2020.
2 6 trends shaping financial advice in the fintech era, World Economic Forum, 2024
3 Advisor-Client Communications Survey, YCharts, 2024
4, 5 2025 Voice of the Client Study: What Americans Really Think About Their Financial Advisors, Wealthtender, Brian Thorp, 2025
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